Common Sense Feminism: Why Clinton Portis deserves an apology. - Charlotte Women's Relationship Advice When will people use common sense? If you act, dress, and talk like a groupie...you'll get treated like one. Have some self respect and common decency? You'll get respect and common decency.

I need you to watch these video clips from divorce court.  Watch the whole thing, but the important part of Video 1 starts at marker 2:58. Watch both parts of Video 2 Video 1: The Definition of Manhood Video 2: Part 1: The Ungrateful Woman Video 2: Part 2: The Ungrateful Woman Judge Toler spoke on the shift of the definition of manhood in the first video.  I don't even have to speak on what she spoke on there, because she said it all.  And I love her for that.  She chastized the ungrateful wife in the second. The question Judge Toler asks in the first video is what often plagues my heart, mind and spirit:

A sound marriage is a blessing. But we often prepare more for the wedding than the marriage. So, what should be your number one priority when considering marriage? Here's what some folks had to say. Add your response in the comments. God...or the lack of... Fertility and/or STD The ability to commit notwithstanding all foreseeable circumstances as well as the ability to compromise. My priority was knowing that the man was going to love me unconditionally no matter what I did