I know this might seem like a strange post for DV awareness. But truth be told, I write these posts for the abused and the abusers. I feel like ending DV means we have to reach the perpetrators and the victims. I don't understand living a life in constant turmoil and feeling completely out of control to the point of acting out in violence. I believe we owe more than chaos to our lives and our loved ones. If you are living a life in constant upheaval and dysfunction, you need to give more to your life than what you're giving. If that means giving it more time away from other people, so that you can become stable, do that. Give more personal space to your life. If that means finding help for mental health or behavioral health, do that. Give more psychological health to your life. If it means loving people like you would want to be loved, do that. Give more love to your loved ones. If you are able to read this, that means you are blessed with life. If