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Black love ain't easy

Black love ain't easy. We see the t-shirts and the insta posts and snaps. We gush at the #relationshipgoals, we nod our heads at the #squadgoals, but what is our reality? As a whole, in this society, we are unstable.

Truth is *in my Fantasia voice*, we often find ourselves at odds as a people and with society in general. With all of the talk about F-Boys and Thots, trash baby-mamas and deadbeat baby-daddies, it is a wonder how we even manage to reproduce. You see people priding themselves on rolling solo and not trusting anybody, focused on "doing me" and ravaged by inner-community perils, so how do we build with no partnership? 
Black love ain't easy. Keep in mind, I'm not talking about romantic love, solely. I'm including love for our brothers and sisters, the young and old, etc., in general.  Love is so necessary for building a strong foundation. It is hard to love someone else when you struggle to love yourself. We happen to live in a society that exacer…