Confession: I have pulled a Pop Up once in my life... What is a Pop Up: Showing up to your boo-thang's spot unexpected, unannounced, uninvited, and possibly unwelcome. Why Pop Ups Happen: Discord in relationships. Parties Involved: The uninvited Popper...The unsuspecting Pop-ee...The voice of reason friend...The instigating friend(s) My Pop Up story is kind of typical. Many...many...many years ago. I pulled my one and only pop up. Honestly...there was no suspicion when I pulled the Pop Up. I wasn't trying to catch the guy in anything... I only wanted to continue a conversation we'd had earlier in the week. My ex-boyfriend and I had broken up. We had just started back talking to each other. I talked to my girls about it (big mistake LOL) and they encouraged the Pop Up. As a matter of fact them heiffas suggested it! LOL I had never pulled a Pop Up before...ever...Never wanted to. I always thought they were crazy anyway... Sadly...I had no voice of reason in t