Yesterday, I spoke to a colleague about his very fresh breakup and heard the same things from him that I've heard from people forever and a day: (Time Wasted)  I feel like I wasted two years.  (Blame)  It's her fault because she did not...  (Insecurity) I guess it just wasn't meant to be, ya know? (Ego)  She said it's over, she had better know it because I'm not going back. Did you see Ciara's Red Table Talk with Jada, Willow, and Gammy? The artist-model-wife-mommy spoke about her transition into happy after a very public breakup with her son's father. A running social media theme is a request for Ciara to share the prayer she prayed to lead her life in a direction toward joy with her husband.  Ciara's prayer: Ciara said she was very specific and declarative in her prayer. She prayed to learn from the wisdom she gained, she prayed for discernment, she prayed for a God-fearing man, and she prayed for a man who loves kids.  That was