#AskYBBG: Is it time to leave my marriage? I often receive questions from married people. In my other career, I typically deal with people whose dating relationships or marriages are ending, or are already over. Many times those people still deeply love each other, but the break down of the relationship was irreparable...or so they thought. I often think they are just fatigued and stubborn. Each one thinks his or her way is the only way, and when the other does not comply they throw up their hands.