A conversation with a guy and a gal about 'A Tomboy's Guide' at Fahrenheit Restaurant in Charlotte. Over dinner, a conversation between a guy and a gal about "A Tomboy's Guide To Knowing, Loving And Understandig Men," broke out. ( www.cmwriter.com/books ) Gal : This is the first time that I've read a book by a woman that bashes women. Guy : It doesn't bash women. I think it just gives the other perspective. It was pretty fair on both sides. Gal : I can see that, but the critiques on women were pretty harsh. Guy : It probably seems that way because every other writer always tries to make women seem like victims instead of equally responsible for what happens in relationships. CM Writer chiming in : I feel like a lot of people playing the "relationship guru" role are very patronizing and talk down to their audience, mainly women, as though being a man makes them the holder of every answer when it comes to relation