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Dear Bobo: About your six reasons for the break up

My colleague heard about this breakup text on the radio this morning. I took a moment to check it out.

Apparently, the lady's friend tweeted this screenshot out of the breakup text, allegedly. 

My friend just sent me this break-up message she received after 7 weeks of dating. My fav reason for split is #3

Then the lady who received the breakup text spoke to an Australian media source.
He was 30, had a job, a car and a house. Certainly not what I normally manage to attract, so I thought I was onto something. He was a bit of a nerd, perhaps a bit quiet, but a genuinely nice guy all the same.

About the wedding:
He’d indicated that he was upset he couldn’t attend with me, but we were only very casual as far as I was concerned and the guest list had been finalised months ago, there wasn’t necessarily an option to take a plus one.

And the cat:
I guess I did tell the cat to “F— off.”

When my colleague told me about the text, I felt like the dude was extra sensitive and the lady dodged a bullet. 

First of all, any dude with a cat is super sensitive, needy, and emotional. Cats are horrible pets! They climb all over everything, have attitudes, and demand attention. Like pet, like owner... 

Secondly ...if she hasn't changed the relationship status...y'all might not be in an actual committed relationship. Or you're dealing with an adult woman who isn't into petty things. This dudes seems socially underdeveloped. 

Thirdly, How are you making demands on someone's time after only dating them for 1 month and 3 weeks? Bruh...can y'all grow to a point of where you become a priority? Can she have a life outside of you? How have you managed, in 7 short weeks, to work yourself into a tizzy over someone you're in a brand new situation with? I mean heck... When you move you get at least 3-6 months to change your drivers license. Ease up! 

If you don't know her well enough to be comfortable with her past (including not knowing every detail of her sexual past) then you may not know her well enough to make any demands. Chill ...

Every resume is not indicative of how a person will behave in a relationship. Some people can be responsible adults and quite loose emotionally. I know this lady is happy she found out how weird this guy was before she became emotionally invested. 


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