Guy Secrets: He goes hard for what he wants

Being the best friend of a guy is a blessing and a curse. I happen to be amazingly blessed and cursed lol.

I love my guy friends dearly. I mean dearly. The hard thing is...when my best guy pals find themselves in love, I have a hard time on my hands...especially when the desire of their affections gives them a hard time. 

We would have long conversations into the night, if I'm available, about what they are going through and need to do to woo this lady. Now the funny thing is...when they were not that into a chick, she would barely have a name. She would be the chick from the club or the "you remember the one I told you about who kept blowing up my phone...yeah...she was crazy." Yeah...basically she did not matter.

Now let this be a woman he wants and adores, he will go beyond his limits to be there for her, take care of her and protect her. I mean, the chicks who meant something got royal treatment. The woman he wanted didn't meet the male whore...she met the best version of him...caring...respectful...attentive...romantic.

A guy will be the best version of himself for the woman he really wants, and will go hard to prove that to her. I have witnessed this over and over again...and not just with my guy friends.

If you want proof, check out the What he said segment of this blog for some of the stories...