If you love her...

Having the close friendships with guys that I have, means I often find myself giving the woman's perspective on any number of issues. 

I'm often the voice of reason when I talk to my guy friends about issues they have in the relationship realm, as they are for me.  

Although I cannot recall a time any of my homeboys have cheated on a lady, I am fully aware that it could have happened and I wasn't told. Had I been told I would have gone off. But I believe I have stand up guys in my circle so I won't even dwell on that. 

One thing I find to be a relationship sin some guys commit is giving another chick power over the lady he says he adores. If you're with a woman, no other chick should be able to come at your lady with current information that will have her defending her position in your life.

I just saw some stupid social media back and forth between TI's wife Tiny and some random heiffa goading Tiny about Tip creeping with the random's friend. I don't know if it's true or untrue, nor does it impact my life. However it serves as an illustrative example of my point.

Tiny even having to defend her position is a failure on TI's behalf. As his wife, Tiny should be so esteemed in her husbNd's eyes that no other woman could say a word to her that even cracks the foundation of insecurities within her. His position as her husband calls for him to protect her. 

Tiny had no business even having to stretch her fingers to formulate a response to the person who wrote on her instant messenger. 

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Never put your lady in a position where she has to defend her place in your life to another woman.  #relationships #love #marriage #peace #dating #ybbgtopic #romance #meme #men #women #quote #motivation #inspiration #relationshiptips

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