Welcome

Hey folks. Let me warn you now. If you are afraid of biting criticisms, hysterical laughter, and deep thoughts. Do not read this blog. Seriously. I am literally the friend everyone wants in his/her corner, but unlike any other friend you have. I'm far from boring, may be a little crazy, but I speak from the heart.

So why do I call this "your boyfriend's best girlfriend"? Well I have very close guy friends. By close I mean, some I talk to every single day. I was a tomboy growing up. I played football with the boys, climbed trees (I'm from the country), spit, and got into a couple of fights here and there. So I grew up a little wildly free and not as prim and proper as many ladies. (Until I was forced into submission by a very concerned mother...lol). That gives me an uncanny connection with the mens. (Yeah, I know that isn't a word...get over it. I make my own words up on occasion...sue me!)

And I'm that chick that you want your boyfriend to have as a friend. Why? Because if he's my friend, you can rest assured there is no opportunity for any funny business. He will talk to me about your problems and I will try to help him work on the relationship (if you are worth it...and you better be worth it if you're with my friend! Otherwise, your arse is outta here!). He's honest with me. I offer him the female p.o.v. , something he doesn't necessarily get from you b/c he's too busy trying to be what you want him to be and you what he wants you to be.

Anyway. Guys love me. I mean seriously. They just do. We click. An ex said to me last week, "you think like a dude and don't have the annoying female habits." So that means I get a little inside view on what men are actually thinking. Did you honestly believe it when/if you read Steve Harvey's book, that men don't like to talk?! Uh...whatever. If they didn't, hookers and 900 numbers would go out of business. Men love to talk...it's just that women rarely like to listen.

So listen up ...you come here to see what the other side is thinking. Why? Because y'all don't know how to communicate with each other. So as usual, I will act as the go between. BEWARE, I may hurt your feelings. I may make you laugh until you get your draws dirty. I may even have you in tears. But you will get hooked...