Gabby Union defends her engagement on Twitter

The look on Dwyane Wade's face when Dena (DNA) gave him the good news.

So... Dwyane Wade got a new son for Christmas? This news broke after the news of his engagement to Being Mary Jane star Gabrielle Union. Gabby has a tendency to address her relationship issues on Twitter...just as she did around the time the child was allegedly conceived and she and Wade were on a break. (See Gabrielle Union checks Dwyane Wade's alleged jumpoff in February of this year.)

Tonight, she took to Twitter again:

As unfortunate as this situation is for the new son and Wade's two other children(not the grown people), Gabby is right. Most people go through mess in their relationships...especially messy people. When you work on being a better person and treating people with dignity and respect, you tend to receive the same in return.

You know the saying, what you sow, so shall you reap? It tends to be true. 

When you sow bad seeds, you tend to reap a sour harvest. 

No one is perfect and people tend to cause other's harm...often unintentionally. However, when you intentionally cause someone harm and harm comes back to you, you probably should show a great deal of humility.

Maybe Gabby knew.  Maybe she forgave. Maybe there was nothing to forgive.

No one knows what goes on in the personal lives of celebrities on a daily basis. We can only speculate based on what is publicized. It is very possible that Gabby has accepted her life as a future step mother to children of a woman who's husband she allegedly cheated with, and to a new son that man conceived with another woman when he allegedly cheated on her.

All in all, she will not be the first or last to do so. The question is: Is this a situation you want for your own life? If not, consider how you behave in your own relationships:

1. Do you honor and respect the relationships other people have? 
2. Are you a person of integrity? 
3. Have you cut ties and loose ends with old relationships before entering new ones? 
4. If you are sexually active, do you use protection every single time?
5. Have you decided to remain monogamous? 
6. If you do not want to be monogamous is your partner aware?
7. Did you do dirt with the person you want to be clean with you?

The alleged mother of Wade's child is Lamar Odom's alleged former mistress Sandrina Lipoye Schultz a multiracial lady from Gabon.

UPDATE

The actual mother

TMZ has got to be the sneakiest tabloid in the world...and accurate too. The real mother of DWade's son, Xavier Zachariah Wade is Aja Metoyer, a thirty-something woman who has two children with Damon Wayan's Jr.

At some point, we have to all handle our relationships better...and keep other people out of them. It is easier to have and maintain healthy relationships when you center the relationship around the two (not three, four or five) people in them.


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