10 Ways to get out of the dog house
It goes like this...guy meets girl and she has his nose open. He usually avoided relationships because he just wasn't ready. This particular lady had him feeling different, but as with anything there are levels to becoming relationship ready.
Most people don't acknowledge the fact that there is a timeframe in a new relationship where you are slowly cutting ties with old relationships...it's that danger zone where you're unsure of the new and having a hard time wiping the slate clean of the old.
That's what happened with this guy. He got a message from an old flame that he was still cool with... Our of sheer boredom he entertained her texting flirtation only to have her flip it on him and seek out to dismantle his new situation by snitching.
He was devastated...and the new lady put her foot down and was having no parts of his shenanigans. She gave him the coldest shoulder and shut off all communication. He was trapped in the dog house and didn't know what to do...
He was given all kinda of bad advice lol and then at his wits' end he asked me and a couple of other ladies and we hit him with the real!
10 Ways to get out of the dog house:
1. Swallow your pride
Since you messed up, your feelings don't count right now. So tuck your pride away and do what you have to do.
2. Admit all of your wrongs
Having accountability for what you've done will let her know you understand how you've messed up.
3. Apologize profusely
Seek forgiveness. You can't expect her to just get over it. You have to be sorry!
4. Do not try to buy back her love
Don't fall for the foolishness of buying "makeup bags" and what not. It cheapens the validity of your relationship...Plus you don't want to be with someone you have to buy, do you?
5. Get real about your feelings
If you know you deeply care for her, let her know how you feel...also face it for yourself.
6. Write a heartfelt letter
Since you're in the dog house verbal communication is not available...but Ohhhh the written word will melt a heart quicker than anything.
7. Be willing to go on probation
You have some work to do...sorry... You have to be willing to be on a little probation for a period of time to rebuild trust.
8. Cut off ties to whatever caused the problem
Some things just have to change. That means you have to cut off some old ties and make some new moves in life.
9. Acknowledge her feelings
Acknowledge that she has been hurt and that you are at least partly behind the hurt. It isn't all your fault, but some of it is and you need to have compassion for her.
10. Beg
If all else fails....BEG LIKE KEITH SWEAT WITH A HINT OF ROBIN THICKE!!
