The AUDACITY of men and their double standards...

There are some men out in the dating world who believe women have to bow down to their wishes and whims.  Apparently men have the upperhand because they are outnumbered.  In fact, because they are outnumbered women should always anticipate being left for someone who looks better, sexes better, shuts up and takes it like a woman or be left alone.

Before you try to call me a man basher...I'm far from it.  I am just pulling your card. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE...

Women should always be aware of what type of man they are dealing with.  Not all men are as selfish or immature.

Oh...but when you find the one who is...RUN...RUN FAST AND RUN HARD.

Let me give you some examples.

1. Men who think they can be all out of shape, breathing all heavy, with dunlap syndrome and greasy, but BELIEVE wholeheartedly that they can be "big and sexy"...YET they think they should have a video model/athletic/beauty queen woman.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!!! Push your fat nasty behind back away from the pork chops and get in the gym!!!! Make some treadmill music like you make Maybach music!!

2.  Men who complain about every thing their child's mother has done, will do, will think about doing.  Scared that she isn't spending his child support money the right way. YET never spends any time with the child. Always finds extra money to party and do what ever with whomever.  But complains about anything the mother does with HER money.

Shut up and stop treating your child like a bill!! When you give over and sacrifice EVERY DAY like the mother is doing...say something. OTHERWISE BE QUIET!

Rick Salomon and Shannen Doherty
on 9/2/02.
Credit: Fame Pictures.




3.  Men who have more sex than bunny rabbits, but want a wholesome woman AND have the NERVE to look down upon women who are as "sexually free" as they are.  No really...there are men who will hold a woman's past sexual exploits against her, while praying that the same is not done to them.  AND feel righteously indignant about it. 

These same men helped women get freaky and then talk about them for being freaky.  Wanted women to bust it loose, then disparage their names for being loose.  Convince them that sex is necessary to keep them, then leave them.  GIVE ME A BREAK! The same mercy and grace you want bestowed upon you, you need to bestow upon others.  The same way you look down on people doing the same things you do, is what you shall reap.

4.  Men who do not have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, BUT want to call a woman a golddigger!  Now please believe me...IF you HAD any gold to dig, you wouldn't complain about spending money on a woman. 
It costs maybe 50 bucks for a manicure.  A couple hundred for a hairdo if it's is something special...A good meal may run you from 50-100+ bucks...Ummm yeah, if you don't have it... Just say you don't have it. You're not spending your money that way. BUT DON'T YOU EVER IN YOUR LIFE...NEVER EVER EVER...HAVE the balls to call a woman a golddigger who just wants to go to a dinner and a movie. FOOL, that's a date!!! A movie ticket at the most is 12 bucks!  And she didn't ask for a night at the Ritz!

5.  Bitter men complaining about how horrible and bitter women are... Ummm excuse me sir, you just spent the last 5 days of this week talking about how all of the women you've been with did you wrong.  The other two days was spent talking about how horrible your dating life is because women are so horrible.  They don't know how great of a man you are and aren't woman enough to handle you.  So you'll just find someone else who can appreciate the calibre of man you are. Did ya figure out yet, that the common denominator is YOU. 

You have a ton of baggage dragging along behind you, holding you down, that you're tripping over...but you keep trying to point out the stink coming from someone else.  Dude, no one wants a Bitter Barry!  A Sad Sam.  A Miserable Michael.  Get over it... That's why all these women flee from you. You're a mess. And your ish STINKS!!!

Now I got this off my chest. I have heard from too many men with these double standards as of late.  Again, I must restate that these are just SOME men.  But ladies, they cloak themselves.  So be careful. Know who you are dealing with.

Comments

whydidshedothat said…
Great article! I completely agree with #4. It's so funny when guys want to think a woman wants his money when he apparently doesn't have any because he hasn't laid down any cash for a date yet. Wanting to be taken on a date does NOT equal gold digger. Please have some "gold" before you think a woman who is interested in you is a gold digger.

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