What makes an unhappy relationship?

Relationship panel I'll be on tonight.
Ok, so a couple of weeks ago I was on Power 98 fm's No Limit Larry and the Morning Maddhouse Battle of the Sexes segment, discussing this topic.  Many people calling in said bad bedroom habits make a relationship unhappy.  Meaning if the loving ain't good, the relationship ain't either.

So is that it? That's all it takes for happiness in a relationship? So as long as the loving is good, everything is fine by you? I mean, for some people that is true.  How many times do you find people taking any type of treatment from their partner as long as they are being satiated sexually? Does that mean they are happy? 

They will walk around looking a Thriller Zombie mess and depressed all day long any other day, but because they are pleased in the bedroom they will say they are happy?  This is actually an appropriate topic for today, because today is World AIDS Day.

If honesty, trust, devotion, and faith are not part of your relationship, then how can it be happy?  If all you're getting is real good loving, what does that say about you? What if the person is sharing that loving with other people? You won't be happy for long now, will you?

Today, I heard experts discuss how the HIV rate among those under age 25 is the largest growing number in our country.  That means college age and even high school aged people are contracting the disease.  Medication for HIV infection can cost from $80.00 to $120.00 per pill.  And you will have to maintain that dosage for the rest of your life. 

And please don't believe that this is just a minority disease.  I remember talking with a coworker of mine, an older Caucasian gentleman (he's now deceased) years ago about HIV infection and the like.  He spoke about how often the ravages of HIV and AIDS in the "majority" community are hidden by calling it "cancer" even though they know it is merely an opportunistic form of cancer due to an HIV infection. 

For more info on World AIDS Day visit: http://www.worldaidsday.com/

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