Vince and Tamar


I've never seen the Tamar and Vince show until today. I watched some episodes online.



Immediately I knew what the issues are that people continue to bring up in the media about their marriage possibly ending. It is the same issue that many people have in relationships: Lack of UNDERSTANDING.

Vince, in this episode, felt that Tamar abandoned him at the hospital. But on the real it has very little to do with Tamar, and more to do with Vince's feelings of abandonment.

Vince lost both of his parents and it still weighs on him. So anything that looks like abandonment IS ABANDONMENT. Tamar could have been at the hospital with him the entire time, if he woke up and she was not there, he would have felt abandoned whether she was in Philly or in the bathroom.

Vince expressed in an earlier episode that he has never been able to deal with his emotions. This is epic!

But ooooh Tamar... She has the little girl syndrome. She wants to be heard so badly that she yells over everybody. I don't know where that comes from because I haven't seen enough of her inner self. She's so extra that it does not make any sense. But at the bottom of the extraness is a very soft hearted person.

Both of them are stuck in a time in their developments that traumatized them. So it somewhat stunts the growth they could have. Vince has to go back and deal with the feelings he had when he lost his parents and learn how to be emotional without losing control, in my opinion.

And Tamar has to learn some self-control without being extremely emotional. Strangely, I like them together. LOL

Have you seen the show? What do you think of it?

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