Guys: Were you Steve Urkel or Stefan?

I always hear some guys complain about nice guys finishing last. My response is, like most things the dating game is about marketing.

I know y'all remember the ABC  sitcom Family Matters. Steve Urkel was Laura Winslow's bugaboo. He made a magic science experiment that transformed him into the debonair SteFan Erkelle. Laura fell madly for him.

But in the end he was still just Steve with some upgrades. LOL

So guys, are you willing to upgrade your marketing package for a better shot at finding your Laura?