He treats you poorly and you take it


Why you treat me so bad...I don't know why you treat me so...

Who sang that song? I can't remember right now. But it is mad old school. Like way back in the day...when I would grab my radio and play secular music in secret.  That music was not allowed in my house...lol. Anyway...that has nothing to do with this post. 

This post is about accepting poor treatment. Look at the lady in the picture...You've felt like this a time or two yourself, haven't you?  It happens when... he doesn't call like he said he would.  He cheated...AGAIN... He lied... He used you...He didn't pay for the date... He just wants to "kick it".   He wouldn't commit.  He spoke to you any kinda way

Lauryn put it down in this song...but hurting does not feel good...



Now you know you diddy bopped and grooved to this song when it came out. It reminded you of your situation, didn't it? My question is...why do you take it?  I mean even a dog would get tired of getting kicked all the time.  You don't get tired of being treated like a dirty rag?  You know what I mean...he uses you, wipes himself clean, and tosses you to a pile of other dirty rags? Why don't you value yourself?

Then the crazy thing is, he will go to another woman and treat her like a princess... What is THAT all about?
Well honey, people treat you the way you allow them to treat you, like one of my homeboys said here.  That doesn't mean what he's doing is right or acceptable.

But when you come across guys who have no man-training (like Judge Joe Brown says), you have to know how to train him (and seriously you can't change anybody, but you can influence him to want to change), or know how to get on the first thing smokin' and get away from him.

You must be so tight with your ish, that he wants to become a better man just to be around you.  Anytime you bow down to piss poor treatment, you will continue to get pissed on.  (No R. Kelly...)

A man who would treat you so bad...does not deserve you.  Give all the good love you have to a man who gives his back.  They are out there...and they are looking for a good woman.

Check out my latest Examiner.com/charlotte article on being treated like a lady.

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