"I want a man with a plan, not a boy with a toy."

Do you even know what you want in a relationship?

Oh the cliches!! I've heard this particular one (I need a man with a plan, not a boy with a toy.) since like 1986, when I used to watch 227 as an elementary school student. LOL

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Then I've heard guys say... "I need a REAL woman, I don't have time for little girls."  What do these cliches actually amount to?

Usually, much of nothing. What kind of plan do you want a man to have?  And what exactly is a REAL woman?

Basically, people usually have a lot of empty words with no meaning behind them as crutches to lean on when they struggle to have relationships.

Do you even have a plan for how you want to develop a relationship?  Are you real (honest) with the people you date?