A closed mouth doesn't get fed


Look...no one on earth can read your mind. If you think someone "should just know" anything about you, you're nuts. 

Ladies, we're often guilty of this... and the fellas are as well, but in a different way. Men have a weird way of just holding stuff in to their own detriment. Whereas, women explode when their feelings aren't catered too through some form of telepathy...

Here's the deal. Until you tell someone how you feel, and why, he or she can do nothing about those feelings. So often you can get upset with someone and have him be oblivious as to why. Well...duh! You never told him a certain thing bothered you. You just expected him to randomly know. 

That makes absolutely no sense. Most folks spend so much time being someone else in their relationships, that the other person is catering to the wrong person's feelings. LOL

Try being transparent about your wants and needs. That way if the person does nothing about them, you will know they don't give two flying rat's behinds about you :) 

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