Body Image: Thin...thick...fat...fit

SERENA THICK? FIT?
TOCCARA THICK? VOLUPTUOUS?
ZOE SLIM?  FIT?
Model Fit?  Big?
Model Skinny? Slim? 
Jill Big? Thick?

The terms above have been volleyed back and forth for some time now.  Who knows what is what these days? When it comes to looks and appearance, no definition is solid.  Too often women and their self esteem get lost in the image of what is hot right now.

What do men like? 
You're not thick...you're obese.
I like 'em slim and fit.                                                              I need a woman with curves.
             I can't do nothin' with BONES!
Ain't nothin' wrong with a little  MEAT on your bones.      
     
 A woman with HIPS and a small WAIST.

The funny thing is... men who like women...like WOMEN.  Even guys who have certain preferences for a specific body type, will still like a woman who does not fit that type. 

Too often we get controlled by the boob tube...aka TV... and images in magazines and on gossip sites and the like.. Women get all upset and eat themselves into a coma....or starve themselves in to oblivion...or get nipped tucked sucked and plumped to fit a generic image.  

Even those women who ALLEGEDLY fit that image...don't fit the image.  I'm not calling any names.  They starve themselves get on all types of diet plans to not be healthy, but to be an image.  

We need to be realistic... Just because your body will never be thick or thin...does not mean you have to be unhealthy.  Your face and hair shouldn't be in the best shape while your body is crumbling.  

We all need to be active and eat things that benefit our bodies.  Good physical health leads to good mental health. 

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