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YBBG recently contributed to the site HeadDrama.com: THE FIVE BIGGEST BREAK-UP MISTAKES. The five tips were broadcast on The Daily Buzz on October 11, 2011, as seen in the video above. (MORE AFTER THE JUMP)
From the article:
Read more at HeadDrama.com: http://headdrama.com/article/love-sex/30/10245/the-five-biggest-break-mistakes#disqus_threadSO, WHAT ARE THE FIVE BIGGEST MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE AFTER A BREAK-UP?
Writer, Editor & Creator of “Your Boyfriend’s Best Girlfriend" gave HeadDrama the following break-up mistakes:#5. TAP INTO YOUR MUSICAL SIDE AND BROADCAST IT
We all love to listen to our break up music. Songs like "I'm a Mess" by Anthony Hamilton comes to mind. You may even find yourself cry-singing along. However, there is no need to make your depressed musical debut on YouTube for all the world to see. This is one part of the break up you should suffer in silence.#4. BEG
Sure, all of those romantic movies show the poor sap coming with his tail between his legs pleading to get back with the love he lost. Yeah, well, it does not work like that in what we call reality. Apologizing is one thing, but begging is a bit of an overkill. Will the person really respect you, once you are back together? Probably not. Value yourself enough to have a spine.#3. GET BACK TOGETHER TOO SOON.
Some break ups are necessary. If you have issues in the relationship, time apart may be exactly what the love doctor ordered. However, if you rush to get back together, without working on the issues, you may find yourself back in the same predicament sooner than you think. Take time to work on your issues while apart.#2. DEVELOP A VICE YOU CAN'T HANDLE.
Break ups can be devastating. Life altering even. But the way you react to them, will determine how much they actually affect you in the long run. Sure you can turn to the comfort of a vice like overeating or not eating, having a drink or whatever. Just be mindful that the results of drowning your sorrows may mess you up for some time. So choose your vices wisely.#1. SEEK REVENGE
It may seem like a great idea to get some "get back" against the one who broke your heart. But you really are only hurting yourself in the long run. I mean maybe the break up is temporary, but your actions could make it permanent. Most people will tell you, revenge has a way of reversing course and smacking the heck out of the perpetrator.
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