You date like a dude
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| What does it mean to date like a dude? |
- BG Men tend to date SEVERAL ladies at the same time. When one appears to be the
"leader", we devote more of our attention to her and then eventually all of it. MY
experience is that women tend to date one guy at a time and give him 100% from day
one. Jury is still out as to if that's a wise tactic putting all her eggs in one basket.
3 hours ago · ·
5 - MM women tend to focus hard...so it can be difficult for them to focus on multiple dudes,
especially when feelings could become involved. most women I know would rather just
have that one person they can hang with
2 hours ago · · 1 - TZ I been told I think like dude as well...I agree with Brian. It looks as if men weigh
options while women zone in on one target. Makes me wonder if men and women treated
dating like they do shopping, what would happen then? Majority of men know what they
want so when they go to the store, try it on to make sure it fits then purchase. Majority of
women will try out a variety of options before they make their final purchase...
2 hours ago via mobile · · 1 - MK Yeah we def usually date one dude at once. I know I did. Until me and my dude were
official, I always thought n the back of my ming that he may have been dating other
women but I didn't ask him. But once we were official I didn't worry about that anymore, I
just focused on my new relationship. But I was only dating him.
2 hours ago via mobile · · 1 - AEK I've always dated multiple men at the same time. As long as you are honest about it,
it has never presented me with a problem, just more options.
about an hour ago · - CP-H I think a lot of women assume a date will become a relationship until its obvious it
won't and men assume we're just getting to know each other until its obvious it's more. To
many women a guy starts as relationship potential and works his way down and to mist
men women start as friend potential and work their way up so in the beginning the goal of
the dates may be different and that affects your approach and actions. I think that's the
difference to some people.
about an hour ago via mobile · · 2 - TD For most women the above analogy is accurate. I have to tell my single friends,
nothing wrong with dating men. If you commit to one man and he ends up not wanting a
second or third date, you get all emotional. Why? He said go out and see where it leads.
That means he's dating to see who holds his attention and who he just fed a few times.
Same thing for my male friends. Most are hung up on trying to get into a relationship.
They see the next base before hitting the ball ... Smh
10 minutes ago via mobile · · 1
What do y'all think? Do you date like the opposite gender? Are there any benefits to dating like a dude?
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