Running your mouth to the wrong person

How many of you have found it easier to talk to other people about your relationship issues than talking to your significant other?

If you cannot talk honestly with your significant other, how SIGNIFICANT is he or she really? Apparently not very.

Yes, I write an advice column. But my overwhelming advice is: talk to your mate.

Talking is imperative for building bonds. However you also have to be easy to talk to. I think that's really what people struggle with in relationships. Which causes most of the problems.

People drop hints and expect their mates to play shortstop and catch them as they get hit around. But it don't work like that.

THINK

Who is more apt to know what your honey means or thinks beyond your honey? Nobody. Yet you run and tell the world and all about your issues, whilst honey is in the dark. That's a mess!

It gets especially messy when the people you tell "can't stand the %€£¥# anyway!"

If you love the person and are not being abused, what makes talking so difficult?