He don't like your hair?


Okay.  Since I did a post on maintaining my natural hair, it is basically called for that I say something about how men view all this natural hair stuff.

That video up top is funny to me.  Not even when I died (it killed my hair) dyed my hair strawberry blonde, did men have so much to say about my hair.

Some guys love it. Strangers have reached out and touched it.  A male co worker used to religiously run his hands through it and say "Juices and berries".  Another coworker would harass me daily, saying "you are so pretty..." O_O...

Then on the flip side.  My homeboy Noa (yes I'm calling you out) asked me WTH I cut my hair for.  Saying I had lost my "power".  My BFF (Noa said I shouldn't call a guy "BFF"...but whatever...lol) completely tripped when I BC'ed.  I had a stranger ask me why women were doing this to our hair these days.  As if we had all lost our minds and joined some type of cult.

Another guy I know laments about how much he does not like natural hair. He likes perms.  Okay...good for you. Go get one. LOL

Why do men care so much about your hair?  Well...for many it is the shock of the change...or the "Ben Wallace" look as Noa calls it... or the fact that hair beauty is centered around grow and flow... grow past your shoulders and flow with the wind.

Sidenote: Check out this guy's Youtube channel. He went to A&T for all you Aggie folks....

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