Self examination...have you had your check up?

Boyfriend application...found on the web

Do you have a laundry list of requirements for potential mates?  Many people do.  Do you send people through all types of challenges and obstacle courses just to get an opportunity to spend time with you?


Do you demand a "good" mate?  Well with all of this attention paid to the person you're "interviewing", how much time do you take to check on your own relationship health?  Any at all?

Let's see what some folks had to say:


Self reflection: Have you ever taken inventory of your own shortcomings? Have you assessed your own character and relationship qualifications?
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    • AJ ‎*cricket*
      *cricket*
      #grass rustling in the breeze...

      18 hours ago via mobile ·  ·  1
    • SR Yes I have both in my past and in my present... Self-inventory is a must...
      18 hours ago · 
    • SK thought about it, seen the problem, fixed the problem, and will start the process all over again as i am always changing and growing!
      18 hours ago · 
    • TLV III All the time
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    • CM Writer It just seems like people (Myself included) spend a long time crafting requirements for other folks, and not enough for themselves.
      18 hours ago ·  ·  1
    • SF 


      I have taken assessment several times and have realized that a lot of the things that I do are for others. To people, i'm nice and gullible. To me, I'm helpful and kind. That goes for friendships and relationships. What's funny is how i'm l...See More

      18 hours ago ·  ·  1
    • GF I do a self-inventory all the time and know what my problems are. And I'm working on them now.
      18 hours ago · 
    • GF I do a self-inventory all the time and know what my problems are. And I'm working on them now
      18 hours ago · 
    • NF Well put Sonya that's also one of my kinks.
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    • ST That's Nadege, it's just truth. I'm fine with helping others and such but I also have to be happy doing me too. If people can't get with that, they can step off. 2012 is going to be a new me.
      17 hours ago · 
    • ST I meant Thanks
      17 hours ago · 
    • MM All the time, and I also inquire as to how others perceive me to see how close it aligns to how I perceive myself
      17 hours ago ·  ·  1
    • ER All the time and I love who I am and very excited about the woman I'm becoming. This year has revolved around "improving my sexy quotient". Doing anything I can for self improvement. Looking forward to part 2 in 2012.
      17 hours ago · 
    • RGB Yes I do Cm and it's imperative that we all do the same. There are too many individuals pointing out the faults of others, but they themselves don't acknowledge their own. Sad.
      17 hours ago ·  ·  1
    • KB Self-evolution in progress... Please check back later.
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    • QF all the time i do.
      15 hours ago · 
    • BB all the time...
      15 hours ago · 
    • AEK yes and i also try to fix them. I dont just say "Hey thats me" lol
      15 hours ago · 
    • RMJ Definitely....you have to.
      15 hours ago · 
    • CA I do so perpetually.
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    • JP Yup...doing that right now as a matter of fact
      8 hours ago · 
    • TZ been doing it for the past few months...and so has he. guess we making sure the other know what they are getting into
      7 hours ago · 
    • KAR Yes. Frequently.
      6 hours ago · 
    • CN Oh, absolutely, and can admit them all. A few I have chosen to work on, others not so much. I'm still a work in progress - a diamond in the rough.
      6 hours ago · 
    • KB Yes I know what makes me me and what things I have to work out if u speak to most people they would say I'm bi polar but not really i
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    • BG Constantly! I have learned, though, that the very things that were weaknesses 10-15 years ago are strengths today. Everything's relative.
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